“Smile”, the queer hope of 4:44

Parents want their children to do better than them in life. For obvious reasons, Gloria Carter, Jay Z’s mother, must be a very proud one. She’s featured on a song on his new album, 4:44, called Smile, about how a rough past makes a brighter future even better. It’s also Ms. Carter’s coming-out as a lesbian, which is met by his son with compassion, love, and “tears of joy”.

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From ally to queer, and everything in between

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I’ve always been a passionate, staunch supporter of LGBT rights, long before I fully came into my sexuality, but it was a war I could fight from afar. I’d march in with the cavalry, sweep the foes off the field, and leave elegantly, letting these people have their hard-earned party in peace. But now I’m expected to dance, and I don’t know how to move without feeling like a party crasher.

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“The Leftovers” is our greatest show about depression, and understanding why you can’t make yourself OK

In the sixth episode of the third and final season of HBO’s The Leftovers, a show so little-watched that it’s managed to survive on critical acclaim alone, three main characters contemplate suicide. Each of them does this for entirely different reasons, just three hours before the end of the series. These people’s lives are, or should be, by most metrics, “okay”: it’s been seven years since the Sudden Departure — the Rapture-like scenario that kicked off the series, in which 2% of the world’s population vanished without explanation —, and after much grieving, things have had time to settle down. Still, by the end of that hour, we’re left to wonder if one of them has actually gone through with it. And there is no judgment.

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The People v. Hannah Horvath: Are the ‘GIRLS’ Really That Awful?

What makes a good person? The characters on Girls have never been charged with murder, and it’s safe to assume that none of them vote Republican—though I’m definitely keeping an eye on Shoshanna in the future. However, consensus even among fans of the show seems to be that these are awful, terrible people; by and large, the worst of television. In a media landscape lush with wicked monarchs and avid serial killers, how is this possible?

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